top of page

Resiliency during the darkest hour


Sunlight peers in through the trees at Dry Falls, North Carolina

Oct. 6, 2024--There are quite a few words I’ve used to describe the people in North Carolina. If you know me, you know I have a special tie to the state and mostly it’s because of the people. Ok, well, the mountains are another reason. I’ve always said they are among the friendliest, nicest, compassionate people I’ve ever met and I love my time there.


But right now, if I had to describe the people in North Carolina using just one word, it would be resilient.

 

The dictionary defines resilience as being able to withstand and recover from difficult conditions. The thesaurus uses words like strong, hardy, spirited, capable, tenacious, valiant, enduring, and unwavering. These words truly cut to the core of the people in the Tar Heel state.

 

What thousands of North Carolinians have witnessed and endured with the devastation throughout the state--as well as neighboring states like Tennessee, Georgia, South Carolina, Florida, and Virginia, is beyond comprehension. Some of these towns have been left in ruins. The pain and the overwhelming distress along with the heartbreak and grief of the loss of loved ones, property, and possessions, take their despair to a whole new level. To say it's overwhelming is a gross understatement.

 

But amid what can only be described as the absolute darkest hour—is a ray of light shining through because of the people and organizations that have come to the aid of those shattered by Hurricane Helene. And with that, it's vital to remember a song Emmylou Harris recorded in 1980--the darkest hour is just before dawn.

 

Individuals from all over the state, as well as from around the country, have made the trip to the affected areas—volunteers and some as part of their job, like first responders, to assist with search and rescue, and others who felt it in their hearts to bring food, water, clothing and more to those who are without. Some drove in; some hiked in, while still others flew small planes into the area to deliver supplies.

 

The vast majority were not paid to do what they are doing. Their compensation was the look on the face of someone they rescued and being the recipient of the hardiest of hugs.  For others, it was rewarding enough just to know a family was going to get a good meal, some clean clothes or their pet was going to eat, too, thanks to your donation.

 

At a time when hearts are heavy from the unimaginable loss, there is hope hearts are lightened by friends, family and all the complete strangers offering prayers and stepping up to provide desperately needed supplies, words of encouragement, and much-needed hugs.

 

The town we spend our winters in was spared from damage, but the residents from there and neighboring communities collaborated with churches, organizations and county, state and national agencies and offices to collect items. Others took it upon themselves to fill their vehicles with everything from food and water to baby formula, diapers, and pet food—and then made the trip to deliver the items. Their reason? They just couldn’t sit back and do nothing. And so many have made monetary contributions.

 

A big-box store provided showers and laundry facilities, and celebrities donated upwards of several million dollars to help provide whatever is necessary. One well known country artist who hails from North Carolina recorded a song—he calls it The Darkest Hour--and turned over the rights to the people of North Carolina so royalties can be collected forever. A gift that will keep giving. Convoys of fully loaded trucks made their way in to make deliveries. Local restaurants brought food and people showed up to prepare meals for displaced residents as well as workers at the scene.

 

The pain and anguish are running deep from this catastrophic and life-altering devastation, and the after-effects will remain for some time to come, but seeing how people have come forward to do what they can, shows humanity at its finest. And the appreciation is running deep, too.


Southerners are known for so many wonderful traits as they are raised to be caring people and it's these traits that are guiding their actions right now.


I have a wooden plaque that reads: "There are no strangers in the South--only friends we haven't met." Truer words were never spoken and I just know those who came as strangers will leave as friends.


People from the South truly are resilient and at no time has that been more evident than now. Please keep them all in your prayers.


All everyone can do right now is....take it one day at a time.

 



 

10 comentarios


OprahoFriedao
11 hours ago

We eventually made it in, and were able to learn about a side of the Oris link Wings of Hope Limited Edition that most people don't get to see – the side of the watch that supports the important humanitarian aid being provided to Amazonian tribes. While the watch is certainly interesting, it's this behind-the-scenes facet of the mission that's most exciting. On this link trip, we got a rare look at the everyday life of the Shuar and Waorani tribes and the positive impact of Wings of Hope's link work.

Me gusta

IOlathehSaffordh
7 days ago

We'll get to the novel functionality in a moment, but let's start with the basics. The Obscura is a steel sports watch with a dive-style layout on a 38mm wide case that is 40mm link across the bezel, 11.7mm thick, and link 47mm lug to lug. The water resistance is 100m, and the link watch comes with a steel bracelet (with quick release and Nodus' NodeX tool-less micro adjust) and a rubber strap.

Me gusta

Snowflake
20 nov 2024

Nice story, Jodi. I have some friends who went down to help people, too. It's great to see.

Me gusta
 jodi marneris
jodi marneris
21 nov 2024
Contestando a

Thank you for the kind words about the story. How wonderful that your friends went down to help, too. It has been really great to see all the people who have stepped up to lend a hand.

Me gusta

Invitado
16 oct 2024

It’s wonderful to see people helping others in such meaningful ways. Great article, Jodi!

Me gusta
 jodi marneris
jodi marneris
21 oct 2024
Contestando a

It truly is wonderful! People from all over the southeast as well as from all over the country. Thanks, glad you liked it.

Me gusta

Mary Kay
Mary Kay
09 oct 2024

Amen, Jodi! Great article!

Me gusta
 jodi marneris
jodi marneris
10 oct 2024
Contestando a

Thank you! So many people from all over the country are pitching in to help--and it does a heart good.

Me gusta
  • Instagram
  • Facebook
  • Twitter

©2023 by OneDayAtATime. Proudly created with Wix.com

bottom of page